Involved or committed?

Which one are you? Are you involved in a relationship, or you are committed to it?

Read about a story once, and I would like to share with you all.

When you see a couple going out, what do you think about them? Are they committed? Maybe they are just involved in the relationship. They like to do something together. They are in love.

Love can be simple when you are merely involved. Doing things together is fun. Movies, dinner, shopping and even clubbing sounds fun.

But when your relationship grows old, there will be a lot of stuff to think about. Some would claim that it’s a bit “ma fan” or tedious. There are so many things for you to think. What do you see in the relationship in another 2 years or 5 years time? You may also starting to count how long have you two been together. But to me, you are just involved in the relationship.

One fine day, when the church-bell sound, when you exchange vow, and your “Tiffany” rings. That’s commitment.

There’s a funny saying. A relationship can be represented by a plate bacons and eggs. In that plate, the chicken is only involved. (Laying an egg is not as hard as you think). But the pig is committed. May your relationship ends with a pig marriage.

Candid shots..

Candid shots… it’s worth any penny that you may or may not have in your pants. Why say that? Well, it’s simply because, from a candid shot, it can be a terrible one.. no doubt, it will not worth any penny. But when you really have a good one, then maybe, it’s priceless.

Candid shot is all about timing. When is that fella going to smile? or put his/her tongue out? When will she have her most natural smile. When will they show their true-self?

When we are really really happy, that smile is priceless and you cannot even act it up even if somebody pay you to. When you are taking pictures, you only concentrate on… which type of smile will make me look good. What kind of angle will me look for macho or skinny. Which way shall I look to hide my ugly side of my face.

What is worth of a picture? To proof that you were there? To tell everyone that who are you currently with? To show off to your friends that you are wearing designer dress? Is there any picture in this world that signifies, how you really feel that time? Posing for a picture is actually the same as posing infront of a mirror. with your killer look and a flatter stomach. But how long can you keep on hiding it? (your stomach, I mean)

Candid moment is all around us. It’s on our face.(sometimes on our belly too) It’s on the face of your family and friends. And off course, when you are with your love ones, you both will have it too.



Today’s classic statement will be:

Dinner out with friends, RM 200

Fussball and Pool, RM25

UGLY Faces of the people you cherish the most…. Priceless…. (ahahhaa)










p/s: happy new year! and thank you for your support.. this blog meant a lot to me.. glad that i have you all to share it with me...